A Gray Hair Glossary
There is a surprising amount of jargon surrounding the subject of gray hair and the gray hair transition process. It can be confusing when you are a newbie. So, here are some links and explanations to help us figure all this out.
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Balayage is one of the salon techniques that some women choose to make their transition to gray more seamless. This article explains balayage better than I ever could.
Basically, it’s like a hand-painting technique to make your grays blend in while you grow them out. Foils are not used.
That brassy orange/red/copper color that appears when dyed brunette hair fades.
Here is a shining example:
See that coppery red tint in my fading dyed hair? That’s blorange!
I’ve been pronouncing it to rhyme with “orange”, but I’ve heard other ladies say “blore-ahhnj” (putting kind of a French twist on it). That sounds better and more sophisticated, but BLORANGE (rhyming with ORANGE) makes me laugh, so I’m sticking with it.
If you want to tone down the blorange, remember to check out this post I did for brunettes.
Check out this product list if you have brassy dyed blonde hair and need recommendations.
Multi-colored hair that occurs when you transition cold turkey and your hair
Most of us use the term “calico” due to calico cats, but I saw a lady on a post who compared her hair to an Australian Wild Dog!
It seems like a less flattering term to describe one’s hair (but hilariously apt some days!).
The line that appears between your gray hair and your dyed hair. It’s more apparent if your dyed hair is brunette since the contrast between your gray roots and your dark roots can be stark.
But, before you freak out too much about the demarcation line, let me reassure you: Your dyed hair will fade, and as it fades, it starts blending in with your silvers.
My demarcation line was VERY obvious at first (a true skunk stripe!), but not as much now that I’m at 6 months post-dye.
The demarcation line doesn’t bother me, but if it bothers you, that’s when you might want to consider the balayage or highlights/lowlights route.
Highlights & Lowlights
Farah Hurdle, of Maida Salon in San Diego, specializes in this treatment, which she uses to blend gray hair with dyed hair to help ease the transition to fully gray hair.
This is how Farah explained it to me via email:
“When my clients want to transition from a root touch up to a gray blend, I explain how we need to highlight and lowlight the hair for about 6 months. The appointment times are about the same time that they were used to coming in for the root touch up, but the cost is a little bit more. This is a temporary investment into the fact that they can eventually start spacing out appointment times and eventually just come in for haircuts. This…process helps their brain to adjust to seeing the gray.”
Confused about the difference between Balayage and Highlights/Lowlights?
This article in Elle explains it. Basically, the main difference seems to be that balayage is hand-painted and doesn’t require foils, unlike highlights.
If you are going to go gray cold turkey, you don’t need to worry about any of this.
But if you choose to get a salon to help you with your gray transition, I suggest you check out the gray hair Facebook groups to read about the experiences other women have had with these techniques. Some have been good, and some have been bad.
Some hair works better with these techniques than others, so consulting an expert (and other women who are transitioning) is a safe way to move forward.
If you don’t yet have a supportive stylist to help you in your transition, make sure to check out my Gray Friendly Salon Directory to find one in your area!
This is what happens when your gray hair grows out, and the dyed hair at the end is much darker than the natural gray hair at the top of your head. Bek’s lovely transition photos show you the progress of her reverse ombré.
My pal Jonie from Silver Revolution has a beautiful reverse ombré:
Interchangeable with “grays.” Lorraine Massey popularized this in her book Silver Hair: Say Goodbye to the Dye and Let Your Natural Light Shine: A Handbook.
The word “gray” can sound kind of drab, and doesn’t capture the true magic of silver hair! (I’m always fascinated seeing how much my hair sparkles in certain light – like Christmas tinsel! Why the heck was I hiding this light under a bushel?)
Gray Haired Men: Think Anderson Cooper, George Clooney, and John Slattery.
Gray Haired Women. Think Helen Mirren, Jamie Lee Curtis, and Emmylou Harris.
Now, Professor Katie has 2 more lessons to share before cocktail hour begins:
Gray or Grey, which is correct?
“Here’s a tip: Gray is more common in the United States, and grey is more common in the rest of the English-speaking world.” – from Grammarly
Therefore, in America, we would write “gray is a color” but everywhere else in the English-speaking world, you would write “grey is a colour.”
We just have to be different! 😀 🇺🇸
One common mistake I see is the misspelling of dye and dyeing.These words have very different meanings:
Dye = Hair Color
Die = To become dead; to cease to exist 💀
Dyeing = The act of coloring your hair
Dying = Ceasing to live; approaching death 💀
In other words, if you don’t want to scare the pants off your friends, relatives and silver sisters – please check your spelling first!
That’s it for today. Did I forget anything? Please let me know in the comments. Thanks!
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