Silver Hair Transition Stories / June 4, 2020

Jackie’s Colorful Silver Hair Transition

Inside: Jackie’s gray hair transition story. I first noticed Jackie’s beautiful hair on Instagram, where she posts under the handle Jackie is from Ashland, Ohio, USA.

On November 27th of this year (2019) I will turn 37 years old. This is exactly 20 years from the age of which I found my first silver hair.

Looking back, I don’t recall having an immediate desire to cover this rogue little misfit. The silver hair was hidden nicely all on its own because of the way my hair fell. No one really noticed the silver strands but me.

Not too long after finding that first gray hair, however, I started dyeing my hair.

I started with a color called “medium amber brown”. I remember thinking that this dark, rich color would make my eye pop. It certainly did! But it also made my scalp burn and my eyes water.

image of woman dyed brown short hair

When my roots came in, it never really occurred to me to simply do a root touch-up.

Instead, I put the same color over all of my hair which resulted in an even darker shade. In turn, this made my roots stand out even more.

image of woman dark dyed brown hair short

But I continued the cycle nevertheless.

I did it because I liked the way it made me look and feel. For someone who had low self-confidence, any little thing to boost how I felt about myself seemed worth it at the time.

Many, many home dyes and a few color strips later I have come to the conclusion that embracing my natural silver hair is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

No more root touch-ups, no more spending time and money on an unnecessary product, no more putting chemicals on my head!


To be fair, my transition to silver hair was not super easy.

Over time the urge to dye would come back when I scrolled through old photos and reminisced.

I got tired of the cycle eventually, so I decided to strip the color out once and for all.

I used Color Oops because I figured having an unnatural blorange color would be easier than an unnatural brunette color. I powered through it and the end result was worth it.

By the end of 2015, I finally kicked the dye to the curb for good. Once I had all my dyed hair completely cut out, I felt so fresh and new. I felt like ME.

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Using Fun Temporary Colors for Gray Hair Helps Curb the Temptation to Dye

Alas, even after finding the support, I found that the urge to dye was still tempting me slightly from time to time.

I was determined this time that I would not break, so I decided to add temporary radical colors right at the front of my hair, which is where it happens to be the lightest.

The first color I added was pink. This temporary color (One and Only Argan Oil Perfect Intensity) was supposed to only last 6-8 shampoos. (For me, it lasted much longer).

image of gray hair woman pink streak

Several shampoos later, I decided to add purple. I kept this color for a little over a week and decided to try to help the color along. The results were actually quite lovely and turned a light, frosty blue.

image of woman gray hair purple streak

This color did finally fade out nicely and I kept my silver locks for another 2 months.

Then the sudden urge to try BLUE hit me, and so I did! This was the worst mistake I could have made. For some reason, the blue held tight to my hair and no matter what I did the color would not fade.

image of woman gray hair blue streak

Eventually, I decided to order a bleaching product and, man oh man did it do the trick. In fact, it turned my lovely silvers an awful yellow:

image of woman with yellowing gray hair

I was horrified. I tried so many different ways to get this yellowing to go away. It wasn’t until a silver sister suggested using Schwarzkopf Professional Blonde Me Toning with Schwarzkopf Professional Blonde Me Premium Developer that I found an answer!

This stuff is amazing! It really took the yellow away and helped me continue on with my silver hair journey.

image of jackie with gray hair

Now, I happily embrace my whites, silvers, and greys and look forward to seeing them spread. I use Matrix Total Results So Silver at least once a week to keep my silvers shiny and bright.

image of jackie with silver hair

The newest bit of change that I’ve noticed is some cinnamon-colored streaks in the front. I would never have thought that I’d start to get reddish streaks! 

What a journey this is!

Support from Family, Friends, and Instagram

My husband was extremely supportive of my gray hair transition, as were the rest of my family.

I cannot recall any negative comments during my transitional time. In fact, most of the people who commented were colleagues who were very happy I was letting my silvers shine through!

They were my cheerleaders and made me feel all that better about making the decision to fully embrace my silver strands.

It wasn’t until February of this year that I found the wonderful silver sisters on Instagram.

This group of folks became a part of my life because I happened upon the Grombre Instagram page. Through that group, I branched out and found so many bold folks who decided to ditch the dye.

Of course, I had already transitioned completely when I found this amazing group, so I simply began to share selfies, really having no real clue how this could help anyone.

image of gray hair selfie

Over time, I began to find kindred spirits in all these incredible people.

We’re all here to support one another while our journey and self-revelations come to fruition. I’ll be forever grateful for all the support I’ve received.


The single most important person through all of this, I must say, is my mom. I can literally say “I got it from my mama” regarding my hair and if I’m lucky I’ll grow up to be just like her (in more than one way)!

I truly hope that all who are starting this journey hold tight and find the cheerleaders they need. I for, one, will be happy to send a kind word of encouragement!

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  1. Beverly

    I have decided to stop dyeing too. Last time I colored was August 2020 so yes, I am just starting my journey. I have gotten so tired of fighting to keep the root line away. Besides the dye has been really making my scalp burn! I’m going cold turkey. YIKES! So I’ll be going from my dyed medium brown, with some noticeable roots, to embracing my silvers. I have my support team, small but mighty and encouraging. Thanks for the inspiration.

    14 . Sep . 2020 Reply
    • Janie Bodiford

      I had premature gray in my 30s inherited from my mom. I had died it for years several different colors. It was expensive to maintain and after having breast cancer and chemo it started to fall out. I had my head shaved and I loved the ease of that. When it grew back in it was white as snow. Plus I read an article that said we should stop dying our hair because the chemicals are bad for us. Haven’t touch a box of dye since. I get comments and it’s the best decision I ever made. 💕💕

      26 . Sep . 2020 Reply
  2. Shirley Tivey

    Hi, I keep thinking about taking the plunge and stop dying my hair but I find I am scared to look older than my years. I am ultra violet and don’t tend to stray too far away from this, then the next thing….. yes, you’ve guessed it, I colour it back. I’d like to do it but I’m not very brave, is there any advice you can give me ? I started with grey hair at the age of 18, so did my siblings and my daughter.
    Thank you

    10 . Aug . 2020 Reply
    • Katie

      Hi, Shirley! My advice to you is to join a Facebook Gray Hair Support Group and lurk there for awhile. Look at the photos and stories posted by other women who have gone gray. It’s inspirational, especially when you see how few women look older than their age with gray hair! That’s a total myth and needs to be sent to the trash where it belongs.

      11 . Aug . 2020 Reply
  3. Judy

    I have natural curly hair that I have been wearing in a pixie. My natural color is very dark brown/black. I have been coloring my hair for over 25 years (I am 70). I ave not been able to have a hair cut or color since early March. I have decided to go silver. I have about 2-2.5 inch out growth that is white, sliver and salt and pepper. I also think I will stop blow drying my hair. I am tired of fighting with my curls. I have been told by many people that they wish they had curls. I guess we don’t appreciate what we have!

    14 . Jun . 2020 Reply
  4. Laura

    Yes, I to have been thinking of letting my hair show it’s nature color. It’s colored a med/dark brown. I’ve been having it colored for many years. I’m 67 and now with the 2020 lock in, I’m even more wanting to go natural. Just use good silver shampoo.

    10 . May . 2020 Reply
  5. Linda

    Wow yr hair looks amazing I too have stopped colouring my hair and at the moment it’s mainly white on top my problem is lme allergic to hair dyes even tried the no ammonia types but want a nice glossy hairstyle now any help will be so grateful TIA linda

    10 . Apr . 2020 Reply
  6. Cass

    I’ve recently become a follower of yours . I’ve been following fifty sister too , such a lovely woman. I used to have naturally blue/black hair & it was the bane of my life as even from childhood as most thought it was dyed, I must add I have fair skin too with a few freckles b. As the years rolled on the greys started to show through. I would colour it a light brown but recently I thought what the hell & i stopped colouring it. I’m very lucky as my silver is a really nice colour I’m told and I use Fanola purple shampoo which makes it an even more standout shade & I get many compliments. I live in Australia and look forward to coming along with you as you encourage and inspire women across the globe. Take care Best wishes Cass x

    04 . Dec . 2019 Reply

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Katie is the founder of Katie Goes Platinum. After constantly dyeing her hair for over 25 years, in 2018 Katie decided to stop the madness and embrace the gray. Since then, she’s been sharing her favorite gray hair tips, resources, and stories to empower women to feel beautiful during and after their transition to gray hair.