Mireya’s Gorgeous Long Silver Hair Transition
Mireya caught my eye on Instagram due to her gorgeous long silver hair. You can find her there at @la.silver.dama
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I am 48-1/2 years old, I live in Southern California, USA.
I was seven years old when I noticed my first gray hair; I was amused, and thought nothing of it.
Since my earliest memories, I can’t ever recall a time when my parents did not have some degree of
When I first started to have a sprinkle of gray here and there, it was right after my son was born; I was 19. Then, when I had my daughter at 22, all of a sudden I found more gray hairs.
But still, I thought nothing of it until my female boss was looking over my shoulder and said, “My goodness, for such a young woman, you sure have a lot of gray hair!”
I felt so embarrassed and ashamed. I did not want to be a young mom with gray hair.
I told my husband about it, and he told me that he would support me in whatever decision I made. However, he let me know that he preferred that I
When my daughter was about 2 years old, I decided to dye.
Many times I tried stopping because as I got older, especially the last 8 years prior to 41, it seemed that I had to do it MORE OFTEN.
I dreaded the skunk line.
The cold turkey approach would only last about 3
I grew tired of the damage caused by the dye (burned scalp and peeling skin) and I was sick of worrying whether anyone knew that I had gray hair. (Sometimes, I’d pack a box of dye just in case we’d be gone too long on vacation!)
Right before I turned 42, I decided that it was time. My heart was ready. I thought, “Who am I kidding? You’re gonna be 42… deal with it.”
So, I challenged myself to go 12 months cold turkey. If I didn’t like what I saw at the end, then I’d go back to the bottle.
It was HARD. Every time I looked in the mirror, I could see those shiny grays growing. I so wanted to dye (and die)!!!
I went the long route. I cut off ends as my hair grew. By the time 60% had grown out, the ombre look was in. Older and younger gals thought I had it done.
On the other hand, my kids, a pesky brother-in-law, and a jerky boss gave me unsolicited advice, jokes, or comments, such as “W
It took a total of 3 years to grow it out from root to ends.
I absolutely LOVE my hair! I get compliments all the time, at least three a week (but who’s counting?)
Recently, my husband and I were in a restaurant, and this man from another table came up to me (my husband had stepped away to the bar) while I was reading my menu and said, “Can I ask you a question? Is your hair naturally that color?”
I confirmed it.
He then said, “I’m sorry, but you are absolutely BEAUTIFUL!”
He also wanted to know my age; I told him and he was surprised. My husband returned, and I introduced the man to him. The man then turned to my husband and blurted, “Man, you’re f**k’g lucky, your wife is gorgeous! That hair, your face…BEAUTIFUL.”
The man shook my husband’s hand as if to congratulate him…and then proceeded to call over his wife!
She came over, and he told her that she should grow hers out, too.
I felt bad for her because I don’t think she was at a place where she wanted to go gray. I told her, “It’s a matter of the heart, you’ll know when you are ready, it’s not for everyone.”
When I started to transition, I had no idea there were support groups out there.
I joined some of the Facebook groups, then I graduated to Instagram, where I found even more support! I’ve gotten such positive feedback from my silver sisters on these groups.
One major change that I have implemented recently is losing weight and getting healthy.
I have lost a total of 37 pounds; I still have more to go. I have changed my eating habits, no sugars, no flours. I think the diet change shows on my skin; people don’t believe that I’m 48.
I feel more confident and beautiful than when I was younger.
My daughter says that her co-workers and friends think that I’m too young to be her mom. They also compliment her for having a “pretty” mom. WOW!
My husband calls me his “Silver Fox.”
I also photo stock model on occasion for a friend who uploads and sells on Getty Images & iStock. My “youthful” face and “contrasting hair” make me marketable, more so for senior ads (retirement, menopause, diabetes, active seniors, etc).
It’s kinda like magazines that use 15-year-old models with flawless skin to represent 25-year-old women, LOL!
I dress different, too. No more sweats and boxy clothes.
I wear more blacks, grays, and other richer colors like royal blue, rich mustard, and deep greens.
I can no longer wear browns, pastels, or soft colors; they wash me out. I used to wear sunny yellow when I had dark hair, I have not tried it recently.
Bright red makes me look like a clown, I stay away from it, BUT NOT LIPSTICK! Red is my go-to lip color!
My color palette is WINTER. Blacks, grays, mustard, green.
For shampoo, I really do not have a preference or a product that I’m faithful to.
Recently, I have been using OGX Extra Strength Refreshing Scalp + Tea Tree Mint Shampoo. I really see a difference in that it gets rid of scalp oil very well, but it can be drying.
And for conditioner, I’ve recently been using a mask: Brassiness Hair Mask with Lavender Oil by Hair Chemist; it really conditions dry hair.
What I have used in the past, and still do, in between these afore-mentioned products is Sally’s Generic Value Product Purple shampoo & conditioner. The conditioner really brings down the yellow and brassiness of my silvers…I LOVE IT!
I don’t really wear a lot of make-up. My daily routine is SPF100, eyeliner, mascara, and lipstick… sometimes blush (rarely).
Red & hot pink lipstick flatter my skin & hair. Black or gray eyeliners are my go-to. No foundation yet, I would not even know how to apply it without looking cakey!
Final thoughts on going gray: It’s not for everyone.
It’s a matter of the heart. If you don’t feel it, don’t do it; you’ll only get depressed (I did).
When you are ready, go all out, ENDURE, and the end result will be WONDERFUL & FREEING! You’ll be happy you left Miss Clairol; you’ll make new friends!
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Katie is the founder of Katie Goes Platinum. After constantly dyeing her hair for over 25 years, in 2018 Katie decided to stop the madness and embrace the gray. Since then, she’s been sharing her favorite gray hair tips, resources, and stories to empower women to feel beautiful during and after their transition to gray hair.